The following do not come naturally to me. Not at all really. These are things I am working on. For some people they do, so if that is you, this list is unnecessary. For me; however, I have to make a conscious effort to do these things, so I created this list as a reminder for myself.I thought others might find it useful too.
How Did I Do Today?
1. Did I look people in the eyes? 2. Was I patient? 3. Did I listen and show interest in others? 4. Did I talk to at least one friend? 5. Did I react calmly to bad news/trials? 6. Did I say something nice about someone to someone else? 7. Did I refrain from thoughts and words reflecting sorrow for myself ("complaining, whining, "poor me") 8. Did I refrain from embarrassing others? 9. Did I refrain from yelling or angry words? 10. Did I pay attention to and appreciate my life, thoughts, actions, others around me and my environment? 11. Did I think/pause before speaking carefully? 12. Did I point out the positive? 13. Did I show affection to family members? 14. Were my words loving? 15. Was I totally honest? 16. Did I read and meditate on scripture? 17. Did I direct my thoughts to prayer? 18. Did I read other inspiring books or literature? 19. Did I inspire others? 20. Did I record my life feelings and events (photos, journal, blog)? 21. Did I think about/ express what I am thankful for (rather than harboring my troubles)? 22. Did I give my time to each member of my family? 23. Did I refrain from gossip or spreading a toxic environment? 24. Did I refrain from blaming? 25. Did I refrain from thinking people are better or worse than me? 26. Did I look for the good, found the good and talked about the good? 27. Did I seek to improve myself rather than seeking to improve others? 28. Did I take inconveniences and frustrations in stride? 29. Did I portray humility, rather than pride? 30. Did I encourage others (to be their best) ? 31. Did I choose a positive attitude despite circumstances? 32. Did I use my creativity and imagination? 33. Did I use my talents to bless others and express myself? 34. Did I look for ways to spread goodness in my environment (uplift, comfort, praise, give hope, celebrate, honor, appreciate, offer service, listen or teach)? 35. Did I make others feel good (special)? 36. Did I limit my TV/DVD viewing? 37. Did I watch, listen to and read uplifting material? 38. Did I limit the time I spent on the Internet/computer? 39. Take a genuine interest in all people (notice)? 40. Did I learn new and practice skills (photography, writing, gardening, technology) ? 41. Did I catch people doing good? 42. Was I a light? 43. Did I work hard, do my best in my tasks? 44. Did I give away time and possessions for free to help others (let go)? 45. Did I unclutter, simplify my life? 46. Did I give large tips to the working class? 47. Did I invite the spirit through prayer, quietness, goodness, love, encouragement and service? 48. Did I clean my house? 49. Did I exercise? 50. Did I wear sunscreen before going outside? 51. Did I take care to look clean and nice without overdoing it (simple, natural hair, makeup and clothes)? 52. Did I limit my consumption of products and food (temperance and moderation)? 53. Did I use/eat sustainable, earth-friendly products (cleaning) and food? 54. Did I conserve water? 55. Did I use less energy (unplugged appliances, turned off lights, TV, etc.)? 56. Did I walk or bike instead of using the car? 57. Did I limit spending to needs, good causes, education, and family/personal enrichment? 58. Did I severely limit trash by recycling and reusing? 59. Was I frugal, so I have more to give others? 60. Did I make do with what I have? 61. Did I create inexpensive, spontaneous and planned fun? 62. Did I use inexpensive/ free resources(library, free shuttle, etc.)? 63. Was I dependable (on time, did what I said I would do)? 64. Did I do everything in love? 65. Did I bless my family, my bf and home?
7 Eleven!!!! That’s my birth date means past two days was my 23rd birthday =D Did I mention this is my 23 years of birthday! Does it sounds old enuff? No I guess =D Tak kisahla, yang naik cume “the number” but me will always be me! Daddy’s little girl who still plays with lots of toys and watch cartoon from 8 in the morning till dawn =D. but wary guys, this little girl is not just a girl. She’s a little girl with high deviated IQ =p
Ok, I just wanted to share how’s my beautiful day went through. Started on my birthday eve: me, dad and mum (sad huh without the brother and the sister =( ) went to Damansara for a pre celebration. Owh ho, am the princess =D. Midnight sharp! Messages and calls was like hey, I’m totally a princess =D Next day (it’s my day *wink*) went out for celebration with Mr Tan Hong Ming at Cyberjaya+Putrajaya (I know some of you will say “apelaa yg ade kat sane tu”) but hey, I can say that night was the best moment in 23 years I’ve been living in this world!!! Than the following days, home sweet home celebration grand day (it’s 8/11 but still celebrating. Bajett tuan puterila kan =p). Hadiah waaah, mcm kanak2 seyh : bertimbun =D oh ya forget to mention “I got TWO birthday cake” lalalalaaa *wink*
So people, sape2 yand ade wish wen. THANK YOU shoo much =D. As usual guys, the picas…….. ;) ENJOY!